After the strong interest shown in my “The Nobility of Slut Shaming” article, which was literally getting more than a 1,000 views per day at one point, I felt it was only right to do a follow up article on the question of ‘what is rape’ and ‘what is the principal (immature) female’s strategy for romantic relationships?’ The reason why I’m doing this is because next week is Melbourne Slutwalk 2012 and I bet it’s going to be a fizzer. If you haven’t heard, feminism is dead and the Men’s Right’s Movement is the future, thus this article is one for the boys to educate them about women and about their own weaknesses. Also, a quick disclaimer, the female behaviour I am describing here is not found in all women, just the women who are ruled by their most primitive instincts. Well educated and intelligent women of course behave far better than this, it’s a pity we don’t educate women these days like we used to.
Rape is not a crime of power. Nor is it simply a case of assault. Rape is a crime of theft.
Relationships are often viewed in terms of feelings; him liking her and her liking him. This is a very male-centric view of relationships. It’s sentimental, over-emotional and frankly, quite delusional: in other words, typical of the adolescent male mentality. Yes, teenage boys are pretty witless. Meanwhile the teenage girls have a view that is actually quite superior in terms of sobriety. When it comes to relationships women are the practical ones, while the men are the hopeless romantics. What men tend to fail to grasp, and what women don’t want men to grasp, is that relationships are all about economics, not about romance. Male ignorance about relationships strengthens woman’s power over men.
Understanding this requires that one starts to take an honest and objective viewpoint on their relationships. Different people have different goods and services that they can trade with each other. Some people are good at building things, others are good at healing, cooking, gathering, child-rearing, counselling, decision-making, fucking and baby-making. These days we have money that we use in exchange for goods and services with people that we’re not friends or related to directly. However, we still use a barter system when it comes to romance, except in the case of prostitution paid with money. For example, a friendship isn’t just two people who like each other. Rather friendship is an insurance policy made between two people to look out for each other both physically and emotionally in the case that the grass isn’t greener over the next hill. Essentially, for a friendship we trade some of our goods and services with another person in exchange for security both emotionally and physically. It’s an economic transaction once we move past the sentimentality.
When it comes to romantic relationships things get more complicated. Men and women are essentially different. Men are better equipped for working than women are, while women are better equipped for reproduction than men are. I think of it as “men dominate the means of production, while women dominate the means of reproduction.” This specialisation of the sexes into different roles is a brilliant strategy of nature to make humans the most successful species on this planet. Consider how much more productive a specialist is than a generalist in any occupation. Specialists are priceless essentially while generalists can be easily replaced. If you want to have a good market value for your skills and abilities, you want to be a specialist in a field people have a demand for.
When a man and woman decide that they want to start a family the man realises that he can only contribute a small amount to making the children: his sperm. So he often accepts that he has to provide additional materials and security services to the relationship than the woman has to. The typical man realises the best things he can offer are productivity, wisdom, protection and strength of character. The typical woman quickly realises that her body is far more valuable than anything she can do with her hands. She can offer sex (which the man craves to an irrational degree, there’s a big demand for this from men), the incubation of children and milk to nurse those children with.
So the woman sets down to marketing her body as best she can. She decorates her body and advertises it in public for the buyers (the men) to see. She then very cleverly hides her willingness to sell her body by either feeling (by evolutionary design) or pretending to feel disdain and displeasure at the attention she attracts from men. Have you ever noticed the scowl attractive women often have? Like all good sellers, a woman knows that if the buyer thinks the seller doesn’t want to sell their goods then the buyer will offer more for it, thus increasing the seller’s profit. Consider just how much time and money women spend on their appearance. These are the actions of a person who knows their market and the goods they are trying to sell. Also, if a woman gives you hard time about how much time you spend playing computer games, remind her how much time she spends looking in the mirror and putting on clothes!
Women essentially want to get as many men as possible interested in their sexual wares, then choose the best offer from amongst the men to sell her sexual assets to. If she’s diabolically clever she’ll insist on secrecy in the transaction so she can continue marketing her body in the hopes of getting an even better offer from another man, or in the case of polyamory, she can sell her sexual assets to several men at once and collect materials and services from several men at once. All of these dishonest selling techniques greatly increase her chances of reproducing in the wild, but not in the age of birth control. In the age of birth control she’ll live a very comfortable life, but she won’t be nearly as successful as her ancestors were at reproducing. But that’s a whole other topic.
This is where rape comes in. What if a buyer decides to just steal the goods and services? In this case, what if a man just forces himself onto a woman and fucks her? That would be taking services without paying and we call this ‘theft’, except when it’s done to women then we give it a special name: rape. Which is essentially theft plus assault. Now I’m totally against rape, for the same reason that I’m against theft and assault: it’s unjust, destructive and dishonourable. Personally, I think rape against men is also theft and assault, but because men can’t have babies, I suspect many people only see the assault part, if it’s violent, and not the theft part when it’s not so obviously violent. Hence men’s rape is not as serious a crime to most people.
Men generally think of rape as being violent assault, but women don’t see it as being that simple. For a woman, she can consent to have sex with a man, but if he doesn’t call her back the following day she could change her mind and call it rape. She withdraws consent after the event. What’s her rationale for this position? Well in the woman’s mind she sold her body to this man, but when he didn’t stay around to nurture and pamper her, then in her mind he effectively ran out of the shop without paying. That’s theft to her, and as we established that’s what rape really comes down to. However, if women don’t openly state that sex with them is part of a business transaction, is this a fair demand?
Clearly, there’s a massive divide in understanding between men and women on this topic. However, far from introducing reason, logic and understanding into this topic, the feminists have ranted and whinged about men being congenital arseholes incoherently. Now the Men’s Rights Activists (MRAs) are getting involved that’s starting to change. For starters, this dynamic in sexual relationships was first explained to me by a man, Warren Farrell in his book “The Myth of Male Power”, secondly the only advice I’ve received on what to do to avoid this situation is from MRAs and that is to make it clear before having sex with a woman that you’re only thinking ahead to having a one-night stand. Unless she’s prepared to offer me something to make it worthwhile coming back again. Things like: affection, understanding, care, love and honour. If she wants me to provide her with money and security, then she’s going to have to either give me a baby or provide an equal amount of money and security as I contribute to her.
All of this is obvious to most women. However, men don’t get it. Men are easily distracted by delusions of romance and love ever after. They don’t understand that as soon as they stop providing goods and services to the woman, she’s going to cut him loose because he is no longer supplying his end of the bargain ‘they’ made. Sadly, men are usually so dense on this topic they don’t even realise they made a bargain with their woman “friend” in the first place. In fact, they don’t understand why women will often gladly throw them out onto the street for a man who is better at providing goods and services to her. The typical woman is not a romantic, she’s a businesswoman trying to get the best deal for her natural resources as she can. If she wants sex she can fuck any man she wants to because young men can’t stop themselves and they sell themselves short. A man’s desperate desire to have sex with women is what enslaves him like a puppy-dog to them. A man is woman’s best friend in the same way a dog is to a man. No offence towards dogs intended.
Interestingly, if men are able to free themselves from their irrational and hormone driven attachment to romanticism in sexual relationships, they soon realise that they can take steps to swing the odds back in their favour. Because women are seller’s in this market, they face stiff competition from other women, especially more attractive women whom they see as rivals and co-conspirators. Women have this uneasy relationship with each other, as a class of people, they are all sellers, so they share some common interests with each other: they’re anti-theft and consequently pro rule of law. So they mostly support men who are anti-theft and lawful, thus most men today are anti-theft and lawful. This means most men aren’t rapists by nature because women don’t want to allow rapists to reproduce. This also means if any other woman is getting a raw deal, all the other women have a vested interest in coming to her aid and ganging up on this pushy buyer. It’s about protecting their market cartel-style.
However, women are essentially business rivals with each other, making female-female friendships tense during their most fertile years. If some women decide to sell their goods and services cheaply, whores for example, then the profits of the other women are being reduced. Therefore, to protect their markets women have a strong interest in vilifying whores and thus maintaining the high value of their prudish wares. However, slut feminism, by promoting slutty behaviour amongst women, has drastically reduced the price of pussy. This was only possible in a post-contraception era, because the women would have gone hysterical at the women giving away babies so cheaply in the past, but now we have contraception they can still sell baby production at a reasonably high price.
How does this help men? Firstly, it’s very easy to get laid these days. Remind women of this fact often, refuse to buy quickly and the price of even beautiful women will come down. Also, women do want to have sex too, some of them want it really badly, but unlike men, women have to be smart in how they market it so they put more thought in before they sell access to their bodies to men. If men simply stop, think about relationships in economic terms instead of lovey-dovey romantic terms, they’ll be more inclined to close their legs and negotiate the price down in their favour just as smart women have done too. Also, women want men to compete with each other, the more men compete for them, the higher the price they can demand for their goods and services. For this reason women love to make men feel jealous, jealousy makes women feel more valuable because it makes their sex more expensive to purchase. If you realise this, stop yourself from succumbing to jealousy, and this woman suddenly finds herself in an unfamiliar position: buyer of your goods and services as a man instead of a seller of hers. Don’t compete with other men, and she’ll be forced to lower her asking price.
Finally, under no circumstances have sex with a woman without first making it clear that you’re not making a commitment with her. Women do business by the unwritten and unspoken contract, again because it gives them a stronger position to rewrite the terms of the agreement (the relationship) without notice, it’s deceptive and underhanded and needs to be called out as bullshit. If you don’t do this, you’re in danger of being accused of rape. I don’t care if she says it isn’t romantic, she’s not a romantic, she’s a businesswoman and the more honourable she is, the more readily she will admit this.
Keep in mind that women are also very savvy advertisers of their goods. They will insist that men change the way they talk about sex in case it allegedly hurts their feelings. Changing words used to describe sexual intercourse from the perfectly appropriate English word, “fucking” to “love-making” for example is simply advertising speak used to trick a naïve buyer into thinking they’re purchasing a better quality product than a generic brand. A word of advice men, the generic brands are just as good (or bad) as the high-end ones. Consider that the emphasis is on men to pleasure women, not on women to pleasure men, you’re probably better off with a prostitute than with a model if you just want sexual gratification.
Another curious term of derision is that there doesn’t seem to be a polite word for a prostitute in the female vocabulary. The word ‘prostitute’ is value neutral to my ears, but I’ve since learned that many women react almost violently when I make the observation that women’s survival strategy has been essentially one of prostitution, even though science is uncovering more examples of female prostitution in the animal kingdom all the time. Prostitution is simply doing what most women have done since the dawn of time and we know this because when currency and barter are introduced to chimpanzees the first thing the male chimps do is buy sexual favours off the female chimps. Prostitution is the oldest profession and one almost every woman is familiar with instinctively. So why do women rubbish any words used to describe a prostitute? I suspect it’s because such information might inform the buyers (the men) that they’re being screwed over by the sellers (the women). So it’s in the best interests of women to keep men ignorant and full of sentimental delusions about romance lest they realise how much women are actually profiting from selling their sexuality to them at an extortionately marked-up price. A society that casually refers to women as prostitutes is a society where men are at least equal to women in dating education.
Having children is not necessarily a smart move for a woman, she might think that giving men children will insure her protection and care from a man, an anchor baby so to speak. But it also means she’s a used car and cannot sell herself as well as she could before she had children. So it’s not in a woman’s best interests when she’s young to have children. However, a counter weight to this pressure to not have children is that a woman’s body is most valuable when she’s at her most fertile period of her life: between 18 and 25. Not surprisingly when she’s also most likely to be raped. By the time she’s 30 her market value has dropped considerably. By the time she’s 40 she’s not worth a glance from most men. Basically, if a woman hasn’t sold her sexual assets wisely before the age of 30, she’s in serious trouble. When feminists tell women to go out and get a job and put kids off until later, they’re sabotaging women from getting to best deal they could possibly get. A deal they can only fairly bargain for when in their sexual prime. Right now we have an entire generation of women in their 30s who will not have children because the men have accepted better offers from younger women. It sucks to be a feminist woman in your 30s or older right now.
Meanwhile for the men the situation is in reverse. 18-25 year old men aren’t very impressive. However, 30-35 year old men are at the peek of their sexual power. They’ve typically established themselves in a career, they’ve strengthened themselves against the reality of the world, they’re wiser than most 18-25 year old women and the women are more likely to have the humility to admit that yes, a man 5-10 years older than them knows far more about life than they do. See women don’t care so much for attractive men, they want a man who can protect and look after her, not a clingy, dependent but good-looking type that men often seek out. If women dealt with men 5-10 years older than them in relationships, they would be dealing with a man far more equal to them in negotiating power. A contest between two 20 year olds will leave the woman in the dominate position almost every time, between two 30 year olds and the man will have far more cards in his favour: independence, wealth, confidence and life-experience.
Also, the best thing about having a family at 18-25 is that a woman can complete higher education from home while looking after the kids and at age 35-40 still have 30 years to direct towards a career with the benefit of being guided by a wiser and more reliable man until that time. Monogamy, early marriage with an older wiser man is really the best compromise and deal for men and women. When feminists turned this down to demand for a better offer, they unwittingly ended up destroying the very market regulators that was giving most women the most benefits possible for the least amount of work. Now women have to work like slaves for men who have no clue who they are and what they want (because men have to think like women instead of men now and worry about all their ‘fweelings’) and the women wonder why they’re so miserable.
Women also have a need to be the centre of attention (to advertise themselves) but also a desperate desire not to be seen to do so directly (to avoid the whore label which will bring in other women against them who don’t want their selling price undercut by an inferior product). This need for attention is an unrealistic demand to put on a man but will lead women to excessively pout, whinge, complain, belly ache, cheat, develop an eating disorder and act helpless: all for attention. In my point of view, women are the ultimate objectifiers of themselves. They don’t care how they get the attention, so long as they get it because if the men are looking at their body that might convince them to want to buy it and take responsibility for it. Hence women will refuse to own their actions. They’ll claim men force them to behave this way and that without men they wouldn’t do these things. Which is almost true, women do these attention seeking things to attract the chivalrous attention of men, but also without men, women couldn’t sell their sex, they would have to earn their keep through labouring like men do. Like women used to do and like mature (non-feminist) women do today. See, mature, independent women don’t engage in this race to be the best prostitute, they make and shape their own destiny on their own terms, they own their lives and their decisions.
Another point a female reviewer of the draft of this article brought up (and yes, I do have female friends) is that she’s always been despised by most women because she refuses to sell her body to men in exchange for their goods and services and instead strives to have a balanced contribution of work in the relationship. She suspects now that she’s alienated most women because she’s threatening their profits by striking such a deal and they’ve reacted instinctively to distance her from their markets. After all, they don’t want her telling their customers that they could do better! Does this sound familiar to many women?
Concluding, by now you should be aware that we have two types of rape here: Rape through violence which is essentially theft and assault, and rape by not giving a woman enough in exchange for the “honour” of her company and sexual wares. The first type of rape should be handled as a crime of both theft and violent assault, while the second one should be punished with a slap on the wrist and a stern talking to from a man who understands all this and respects women. She also needs a stern talking to from a woman who respects and understands men. This second version of rape is as much the fault of the woman who didn’t negotiate honestly and openly with the man in question about the conditions of their sleeping together.
I understand this kind of dry economic view of relationships is going to jolt a lot of men and women for different reasons, but if you observe the behaviour of women around you will notice their behaviour often suggests they are aware of these dynamics in relationships. However, I rarely see a man who gets this economic perspective on relationships, rather, I see men deliberately deluding themselves or in denial of this simple reality of life: relationships of all types are economic transactions, not simply about mutual feelings of affection. I’m not saying that women could articulate clearly why they behave this way in an economic perspective, but they know it instinctively enough to manipulate and control men without men realising that women have most of the power in romantic relationships.
So men, smarten up, open up your eyes, remove the Disney glasses and take a sober and rational look at relationships with women. It might seem less magical, but it will be far less painful and more rewarding if you guide yourself through a relationship with your head rather than with your penis. If you invest wisely in your career, your skills and your values you will get the most out of your relationships with women, but if you sell yourself short all the time, don’t complain to me that you married a demanding, controlling and insatiable entitlement princess. Don’t listen to the feminists, listen to your head, value yourself and earn for yourself the future you deserve. By thinking and acting smart we can close this shameful chapter of our recent history: slutwalk. Remember, if you’re stupid enough to pay for sex, you don’t deserve your money in the first place. Also, if you disagree with anything here, and you have a logical and intelligent point, I’ll listen to you, but if you’re just going to cry and whinge, I’ll ignore you at best and mock you at worst. You have been warned.